She died for love

A lot of things do happen in my life and usually I write about those moments which affected me the most, be it beautifully or painfully.

However, it is so strange how I never wrote anything about my sister’s death.


It was unfortunate that her life was taken on Valentine’s day of 2014 by the man she claimed to love and had 2 young girls with. 

It is now 23:40 and I hope to finish writing this post by 00:00. 

In her memory, I want to write this letter…

Dear big sis
I hope, where you are, you are well and happy

I wished to know what could have happened but it would still leave me with my heart bleeding.

All I know is that you didn’t come back home to your family, to your children, to us, your sisters…

I need you to know, your children have grown. One a little troublesome but very smart and strong at heart, the other very sweet and friendly just like you. 

I promise to take good care of them both together with my own.

I hope that you will be an angel, looking down at us, guiding and protecting us from things we have no control over, things that only angels like you can see.

I hope someday I will be able to explain to the girls, how their father took you away from them without making them feel any guilty of your incident. 

I hope they understand.
Yours in sisterhood

Sethu

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13 Comments Add yours

  1. Diana says:

    This is truly sad. Beautiful letter but so heartbreaking. I am so sorry to hear about your sister’s death. May she rest in peace and may God watch over your family.

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    1. Siphosetu says:

      Thank you for your empathy Diana. We are doing well, it wasnt easy at first, but we got used to the fact that she is no more.

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  2. Talkwithtaba says:

    This is so emotional.Thank you for sharing <3.God will guide you when the time comes,when you have to explain to your sisters kids what happened.

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    1. Siphosetu says:

      Thank you Atha. I really felt like writing about it. As I consider writing as a great tool for healing..

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    1. Siphosetu says:

      thank you 🙂

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  3. This is so touching, God will help you in giving the best care to the children.
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    1. Siphosetu says:

      Thank you love for reading 😊

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  4. ellie894 says:

    I’m so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. ❤️

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    1. Siphosetu says:

      It’s OK Ellie. Thank you love. 💜

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  5. Can’t lie this was hard to read. I don’t like hearing stuff like this but sadly this happens. But your sister is in heaven smiling and protecting you and she is in a better place now.
    Keep your head up and you will see her again

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    1. Siphosetu says:

      Thank you. 💜

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